IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Raymond G. "Ray"

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Mente

Aug 16, 1937 — Sep 1, 2026

Shawano

Funeral Services

Visitation

September
19

Saturday

Sacred Heart Catholic Church

302 S Main St, Shawano, WI 54166

9:30 - 11:00 am (Central time)

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Mass

September
19

Saturday

Sacred Heart Catholic Church

302 S Main St, Shawano, WI 54166

Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)

Obituary

Raymond G. “Ray” Mente, age 89, of Shawano, passed away on Tuesday, September 1, 2026, in Shawano. Ray was born on August 16, 1937, in Iron Mountain, Michigan, to the late John and Lucy (Katnig) Mente. After graduating from Iron Mountain High School, he enlisted in the United States Navy, proudly serving his country. On August 5, 1961, Ray was united in marriage to Julie Brosio in Iron Mountain. The couple shared a wonderful 61 years together before her passing in 2022.

In 1962, Ray earned his bachelor’s degree from Northern Michigan University and went on to serve the State of Wisconsin as a probation and parole officer for 30 years, retiring in 1995.

Ray and Julie moved to Shawano in 1964, where they raised their family and built a life filled with love, laughter, and community. Ray enjoyed sports throughout his life, spending many years playing shortstop in local softball leagues, golfing, and biking. He shared his love for sports and his desire to make a difference by coaching, serving as both a soccer coach and a youth baseball manager. He was a founding member of the board of directors for the Shawano Lobos and Shawano Youth Soccer.

In retirement, Ray found joy in woodworking, tending and savoring the harvest from his vegetable garden, reading, and spending time with his children and grandchildren. One of his greatest pastimes was playing cribbage. He was always on the lookout for a worthy opponent and took great joy in teaching his grandchildren the game, helping them master the strategy and rhythm behind every play.

Ray was also known for his infamous one‑liners—quick, clever, and occasionally not entirely appropriate remarks that appeared effortlessly and left people either smiling or delightfully bewildered. His humor made every interaction unforgettable.

Ray was a long‑time member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Shawano and will be remembered as a loving father, grandfather, uncle, and friend.

Ray is survived by his children, Stephen (Suzanne) Mente, Ann Mente, and Matthew (Katrina) Mente; grandchildren, Melissa (Ernie) Barrameda, Anthony (Abbey) Mente, Katheryn (Joe Heitz) Mente, Sarah Mente, and Joseph Mente; and great‑grandchildren, Olivia, Reyna, Cecelia, and Graham. He is also survived by many beloved nieces, nephews, and extended family members. Ray cherished many friendships throughout his life, including his life‑long friend, Richard Masse, as well as his wonderful neighbors, Tim and Cherie Schultz.

Ray is preceded in death by his wife, Julie; siblings, John, Bernard, Paul, Joseph, Mary, and Louise; and his parents, John and Lucy.

A Memorial Mass will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, September 19, 2026, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Shawano. Visitation will be held at the church on Saturday from 9:30 a.m. until the time of service. Military Honors will be conducted at the church following the service, and inurnment will take place at Sacred Heart Mausoleum.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at ThedaCare Medical Center-Shawano, ThedaCare at Home, and Shawano Health Services for their compassionate care, kindness, and support during Ray’s final months.

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